HAPPY NEW YEAR

It has been a good year full of good tidings. Good things have happened and some bad things too have happened. This is what life is, we win some and then we lose some but whatever happens, being alive is what matters most. So if you are reading my blog right now, congratulations, you are alive. Believe me, a breath of life is already half the way to success.  To all my esteemed readers I say HAPPY NEW YEAR FULL OF GOOD TIDINGS AND GOD’S BLESSINGS. Please do stay with me for better thoughts this new year. I have great things lined up for us.

4 EASY STEPS TO LEARNING HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND REMAIN SUCCESSFUL

Ever wondered why some people live a happy life while others remain miserable in the same circumstances? Well, guess no more! Here are some of the key principles that you need to develop in order to live a happy and fulfilling life;

Relationship Experts Are Overrated!!!!!!!!!!!....Become Your Own Expert

Anyone can agree with me that if there is anything that has become such a complicated science, it is relationship formation and maintenance. Human beings are described as social animals and relationships drive the agenda of our very own existence.

EXPOSED!!!!! THE SECRETE TO BEHIND SUCCESS

I have a strong believe that the difference between where you are right now and where you would like to be lies in your ability to cultivate within you a spirit of confidence, self belief, courage and positive self esteem. Here are a few things that you can do in order develop self confidence.

TEN EASY STEPS GUARANTEED TO TURN YOU IN TO AN EXCELLENT PROBLEM SOLVER.

Problem solving skills are necessary in enabling us stay ahead of the rest in this competitive world. Here are ten points to consider when solving a problem.

a)      Understand your problem well.

This will require an in-depth analysis of the problem that you are facing. It will involve a thorough research of the cause and the source of the problem, the impact of the problem and your ability to solve the problem.

4 VARIABLES GUARANTEED TO BOOST YOUR ATTITUDE

They say nothing in the world can stop a man with positive attitude from achieving his goals just like nothing in the world can help a man with a negative attitude achieve anything. Everything we are, everything we have achieved, is everything that we have thought about. We have achieved what we thought we could achieve and we have stretched as far as we could have allowed ourselves.

LESSONS FROM THE CHARACTER OF NELSON MANDELA

What is character made of?

Character is the sums total of mental and moral qualities that make a person distinct from others. Character is therefore a collection of stable and distinctive qualities that are referred to as character traits. One trait may not be enough to completely describe the character of an individual; usually a collection of character traits may be needed.

There are over 30 traits already described. Sometimes different words may be used to describe the same character trait or

STILL WANT TO BE SUCCESSFUL? BECOME A LEADER.......... SEE HOW

NINE LEADERSHIP QUALITIES OF ALL TIMES; TESTED AND TRIED.

1.      Integrity

They have a character that is beyond reproach which calls on them to be honest in all their dealings

2.      Faith.

CONSIDER THESE POINTS WHEN MAKING MAJOR DECISIONS

Decision making is the process of choosing between two or more available courses of action. Effective decision making skills refer to the ability to make choices that produce desired results. Decision making is prompted by a desire to achieve a goal and there are many alternatives of achieving the goal hence a decision has to be made.

LIFE IS A SERIES OF SEASONS

Life is a series of seasons

There are seasons of time, learn what they mean. This is what life means;

Sometimes it rains’

These are troubles, trials, tribulations that we have to go through.

Sometimes it is dark;

WHEN DO TRAGEDIES BECOME TRAGIC?

Tragedies become tragic when they take away from us three most fundamental human qualities; hope, faith and believe.

A young boy once asked his grandfather, “why do bad things happen in the world?” his grandfather looked at him straight in the eye and answered him, “because my son, that’s what make the world normal, you see, if no one died or got sick, or if there were no rumours of war or road accidents

HOW MENTALLY DISCIPLINED ARE YOU.

SELF DISCIPLINE IS WHAT YOU NEED TO KEEP GOING..
It is said that a man’s talents will bring to the king’s table but to keep him at the king’s table he needs character. Meaning one can never enjoy the fruits of his labour if he/she lacks self discipline. Self discipline is the inner drive that compels you to maintain a difficult schedule. 

ARE YOU STILL CHASING YOUR DREAM? PATIENCE IS THE STYLE OF THE GAME

NINE EASY STEPS TO OVERCOMING IMPATIENCE

Someone once said that the problems with many unsuccessful people, is that; they set out to build a wall in a day. This is usually the source of our misery and heartaches. Patience is a technique that must be mastered by those who are hoping to gain financial freedom.

JUST WHO IS POOR?

LET NOT POVERTY BE REASON FOR YOUR DEAD DREAMS.
Poverty is the state of having no enough money or lack of it.Poverty however goes beyond lack of money. The World Bank defines poverty this way; “poverty is hunger, poverty is lack of shelter, poverty is being sick and being unable to see the doctor, poverty is not having access to school and not knowing how to read, poverty is not having a job, it is the fear of the future and living one day at a time.”  An expansion of definition of poverty like this makes a majority of us very poor even if we look self sufficient.

ARE YOU LISTENING TO DOOM SAYERS?

DOOM SAYERS

Doom sayers are people who perpetuate negative stereotype. they will tell you; 'you are not a strong science student', 'you do not have it in you', 'we have seen people like you, they do not go far'
I remember when I was in high school I was convinced that I could write. after a long struggle with my fear, one day I gathered enough courage and I approached my English teacher to see how he could help me write a story book. He gave me a composition to write which I wrote to the best of my ability. 

DID YOU CHOOSE YOUR ROLE MODEL WISELY?

A BAD ROLE MODEL COULD RUIN YOUR DREAM!

A role model is someone whose behaviour, example or success can be emulated by others. A role model is supposed to provide a social mirror especially for the young people through which they can see and imagine what they would like to be when they grow up. Role models are particularly very important in shaping attitudes and behaviour of teenagers and young people. Teenagers are particularly very vulnerable when it comes to role modelling since they are a group that is experiencing identity crisis.

GET RID OF THIS IF YOU WANT TO BE SUCCESSFUL

LAZINESS AND PROCRASTINATION

Laziness is the quality of being unwilling to work or spend energy. It is also the unwillingness of a person to fully utilize his/her potential despite knowledge of existence of such potentials. Procrastination is the habitual and intentional postponement of something that should be done or to delay doing something until a later date because you are unwilling to do it or because you are lazy. Procrastination is a manifestation of laziness. Laziness is the biggest enemy of personal progress and its one of the reasons why people never get to realize their dreams.

IS YOUR DEAD TIME RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR DEAD DREAM?

ARE YOU A GOOD TIME MANAGER?

Someone once said “if you can manage time properly, then you can manage anything.” In my book ‘TEN -STEP RECIPE FOR SUCCESS’ I wrote; “everybody has got 86400 seconds in a day, and the difference between successful people and the rest is that, successful people can account for most of these seconds. They make sure that each and every one of them counts: lazy people just blow them away like dust in the air.” The surest way to become poor is to fail to learn how to manage time.

HAVE YOU CHECKED YOUR MENTAL ATTITUDE?(DREAM KILLERS)

YOUR NEGATIVE ATTITUDE WILL BE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR ABORTED DREAM

Dictionary defines attitude as a settled ways of thinking about someone or something. This settles way of thinking is reflected in a person’s behaviour towards the said object. Attitude is a collection of enduring beliefs; therefore we can say that attitude is a progeny of deep rooted beliefs.  Attitude is also a feeling or an emotion about an object of interest. Our attitudes determine how we behave towards other people.

DO YOU HAVE FRIENDS OR SNAKES?(DREAM KILLERS)

        FAKE FRIENDS WILL KILL YOUR DREAM

Someone once said that, life provides us with free gifts which if held on to dearly will have a lasting mark on our lives. Such free gifts include the gift of life, the gift of family, the gift of good health, the gift of forgiveness of sin, the gift of happiness, the gift of love, the gift of hope and the gift of friendship. I remember a motivational speaker who once told us in high school that ‘your worth in life in determined by the kind of people you associate with.’ He went on to say, ‘your net worth is commensurate to your net work.’ These words reminded me of an old saying ‘show me your friends and I will tell you who you are.’ In other words a person’s character is better explained by the kind of friends one hangs around.

IS YOUR JOB STOPPING YOU FROM EXPLOITING YOUR FULL POTENTIAL?(DREAM KILLERS)

                                   EMPLOYMENT

Employment is a supposed to be guarantee of income on a regular basis, weekly, monthly, or yearly. After God had created man, he commissioned him to work in the Garden of Eden, work in this case according to theologians means “to become” meaning God commissioned Adam to become everything that he had intended for him to become. Man had to find out for himself what he could do with the resources around him. In fact, it is argued that, God did not create Adam with everything he needed rather, he placed resources within his environment which Adam needed to process in order to get everything he needed.

COULD THIS BE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR DEAD DREAM ?

                                                               
                                               LACK OF VISION 

A vision is purpose in pictures. Like I have already indicated earlier, each one of us was created by God with a purpose to accomplish and that all of us have got inherent abilities that are related to our purpose. Purpose is theoretical; we get vision when we begin to conceive ideas in our mind. The ideas are then conjured in to vivid pictures in real life. The visions will remain as mental pictures until we begin to apply them in real life, then they become actions. Therefore an action is an idea applied in real life. This is to mean no one can become anything they have not thought about, nothing under the sun can become unless it is first conceived and conjured by human mind premised on purpose.

THREE MOST IMPORTANT LAWS OF SUCCESS

It is paramount that we understand that you came on earth to manage a problem for humanity, which means that you have an assignment to humanity. None of us was born to live, raise a family and then die without any meaningful contribution to humanity. Each one us was born with a purpose and whatever your purpose is, the world needs you. There are as many unsolved problems in the world as there are dead men and women who died before they discovered the problems that they were born to solve.

WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR DREAM?

Remember those days when we were growing up? When someone asked us the question, “what would you like to be when you grow up?” Each one of us had a ready answer for that question: some of us would say doctor, others, pilot, some would say engineer, a few would say teacher, and still very few would say police man. Mine was lawyer but I ended up as a high school teacher, yet mine is not the worst case scenario, because I know of some of us who had big dreams and they have ended up with absolutely nothing. Now I am raising a family and I have an eight year old who wants to become a pilot and a 4 year old who wants to become a doctor. The most intriguing part of this is that my wife and I have nothing to do with the decisions that this children have made about their future.

TEN-STEP RECIPE FOR SUCCESS

This is my first book that I have just published.

In your struggle to make life better, you have encountered moments when you feel so defeated, challenged, helpless and overwhelmed by the pressures of life. At one point you may feel you've hit rock bottom and beyond this point you won’t move. You are putting more effort but the outcome is not commensurate with your input.